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I'm Turning 30 . . . the final countdown

I am turning 30 in less than 2 weeks and I have no idea what to do to celebrate it.  I have never been big on birthdays, I have this complex where when people sing to me I freak out.  People keep bugging me to plan something.  I have no idea.  Go to a bar?  My friend recently turned 30 and he got one of those big boxing rings, and the enormous gloves and everyone punched eachother, why can't I think of anything.  I have a random collection of friends, some from HS, some from college, some from old jobs, etc.  So a big dinner would be weird, since first of all, there would be too many of us, and I am the only vegan.  I have this new rescue dog, who was abused and is scared of men, and drunk people, so a party at my house is out.  Aarghh, I need inspiration.
I want to do something fun and random.  Suggestions?

I don't suppose you're into bowling?  I've always had fun at parties in Bowling Alleys where you can bowl or play other games like pinball, pool and foos ball (depending on the alley).  Everyone could pay for what they participate in and if they want to drink, it's on them.  It is kinda loud and unsuitable if you just want to sit and talk to someone, though.  You did ask for fun and random and not in your house.  Food is going to be an issue anyplace that's not a vegetarian restaurant.  In a bowling alley, the emphasis would not particularly be on food.  Just my 2 cents.

 

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Actually bowling could be fun.  Although, the last time I bowled, I scored a 45  :P.  I am not looking for quiet, you only turn 30 once or twice.  I am not really worried about being the only vegan, other than the only restaurant in town that I feel would be suitable since it is vegan and large, is also kind of expensive, and I figured 20-30 people at once would overwhelm them.  I only have one friend who is not veggie friendly, and she can soak it, its my birthday.  I guess I am saying that my birthday is the one day I get to pickthe restaurant and no one can complain, so I wouldn't want to compromise and go to a meaty-cheesy place.  therefore, no dinner involved in the festivities, perhaps for a small, sub group, and then a meet up for everyone later . . . I suck at planning. 

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Perform at an improv comedy club

LOL, I am getting traumatized just thinking of it . . . it would probably be good for me to break out of my comfort zone . . . hmmm

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You're hot.  Who cares if you're 30?  You don't "look" it.  ;)

:)>>>

I like rock climbing; challenging and fun and can be done with a group.
And I like MD's idea of a new tat or piercing.

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Bowling sounds fun, also roller or ice skating. Something you haven't done for a long time, something you can be a bit crazy and silly with.

As to turning 30, it's a number. Pick an age you like and stop counting. Personally I stopped counting at 27. Whenever anyone asks my age I have to stop and think. They say "you're as old as you feel." Some mornings I'm about 102; other days I'm only this many years old!

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Actually bowling could be fun. 

Think, COSMIC bowling.  Oh yeah. 

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do you have a friend that loves planning parties?  i have one of those! and i hate planning parties.  maybe they could help you figure out something fun thats suitable in your town! take them out to dinner to thank them for helping you and make plans at the dinner.

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I hate my birthday but I love planning things.  Depending upon the number of people total you could definitely do something like rent out a roller rink for a night, or take over half a bowling alley.  Get a restaurant you know can accommodate the number and your diet and book them for the event.  Play fun social networking games to get everyone talking to each other; scavenger hunt but with people as the items to collect ala "Find one male who went to High School with hibiscus and sat behind her in English", or you can do a 2 minute introductions around a table, people introduce themselves and chat but in 2 min they all move left and rinse repeat.

You could also just pick a lovely restaurant that you like and have dinner.
Find a small hall and have a potluck or dance.
Throw a pajama party at a hotel.  Everyone gets a room, you get a suite and people party in your room!  heheh
Go visit a museum in group.  (Of course call ahead and perhaps have a bagged lunch waiting for everyone.)

Well, I can post more if I they come to me!  Good luck planning the fun and festivities and happy upcoming birfday!

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You're hot.  Who cares if you're 30?  You don't "look" it.  ;)

:)>>>

I like rock climbing; challenging and fun and can be done with a group.
And I like MD's idea of a new tat or piercing.

Awww thanks!  I am looking forward to my birthday, every year gets better. I am sure sooner or later I will reach the peak of my hotness, but it hasn't happened yet  ;)

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do you have a friend that loves planning parties?  i have one of those! and i hate planning parties.  maybe they could help you figure out something fun thats suitable in your town! take them out to dinner to thank them for helping you and make plans at the dinner.

Good call, my friend loves planning parties so much, she was going to offer her services on Craig's List. (err, for party planning that is)

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Thanks a lot, Hibiscus.  Now this is stuck in my head.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7_IKcMl_a9A

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Thanks a lot, Hibiscus.  Now this is stuck in my head.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7_IKcMl_a9A

Sorry, I keep doing that to you!  It is one of my annoying habits, that and talking about gross things while people are eating.

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Eh, it's somewhat endearing, actually.  And it's a proven fact that the best time to talk about "gross" stuff is when people are eating.

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Well then . . . I had a lecture yesterday on lung function.  The professor kept talking about inspiration and expiration, and this got stuck in my head

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rwtD94nKZcI

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Alright... Peter Cetera... Now you're just taking it too far.

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Alright... Peter Cetera... Now you're just taking it too far.

I don't know when to say no

i like to think of 30 as the new 20.

but damn woman! i can't believe it! must be all the veggies! DR turned 30 last year (she also looks younger than she is) and said she really enjoyed not being "in the 20s" anymore.

LOL, I have always said it was my oily skin, it keeps the wrinkles away

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