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Sad Personal News, 2 bad things actually... (NVR)

I went to the doctor today and had an ultrasound. I miscarried.  :'(
The doctor said it must have happened very early since he couldn't find anything at all. We're sad, but mostly just in shock.

I also found out this morning that DH will be returning to his not-so-favorite desert sooner rather than later. So yeah, that sucks. >:(

Today has been pretty crap.  :'(

Jennifer,

My heart goes out to you.  I have never been pregnant so do not know the loss one feels with a miscarriage.  My mom had three and I have had friends have miscarriages and lose their babies from 5 months on to one week before delivery.  I felt their pain and I feel yours. 

I know loss in different ways and loss is sometimes very hard to bear.

One of my very best friends lost her baby at close to 6 months in her pregnancy.  My mom always used to say it was God's way of saying something wasn't right.  Doesn't make anyone feel better.  On the bright side with my friend, she later got pregnant after losing the baby and had the most beautiful son.  She only wanted two children. 

Her newest son is a joy.  He is 3 1/2 now.  I told her that if life had worked out as originally planned, she would not have this beautiful boy that entertains me beyond belief because he is the second child.  I can't imagine life without him.

So please find comfort in knowing when things are meant to happen, they will. 

I hope that you are well and that you will find peace and comfort in the days ahead.

I will pray for your husband.  You and your family are deep in my thoughts and prayers.

Hugs and love,

Di

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Jennifer:

Very sorry to hear of your loss.

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