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Any Other Single Vegans Here?

I'll tell ya....

Life can be hard, when you're a vegan, and single....

Personally, I could share my life with someone who ate animal products. And there's so few of us out there. I can count on one hand the women I've dated in the last 10-15 years....

Any other single vegans out there? Share your stories!!!

hahaha i could see some really cool hip hop to it

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Single. Though I am a veggie, not vegan(yet.) I live in North Carolina though, so you are more likely to find a Time Lord than a vegetarian male. Until about a year and a half ago I was in a 5 year relationship, and since then I haven't dated much. Can't really say I miss it terribly, but there are moments when I do. Good luck to everyone!

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single for life yo it seems... done with guys!

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Single. Perennially it seems. My focus is always on school.

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Stay single and just be social. I wasted  my whole 4 years of college chasing around the wrong guy. I knew he wasn't right, but I was so afraid of being alone that I just let it drag on and on. I wish that I had just been more independent and fucked a lot more people. I wasn't totally faithful by any means, but I should have been whooping it up a lot more!!!

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Stay single and just be social. I wasted  my whole 4 years of college chasing around the wrong guy. I knew he wasn't right, but I was so afraid of being alone that I just let it drag on and on. I wish that I had just been more independent.

x infinity!

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Single and have been for, 6 years? I've had friends with benefits and now I'm in love with my best friend but since he's in Belgium right now he refuses to date me. Go figure. Though he has said he feels the same way. I mean, he's vegetarian (can't be vegan b/c of health problems), has the same beliefs as me when it comes to women/feminism, and we just get along perfectly although we're pretty much total opposites about everything else. 2 more years and he'll be back in the states for good. But until then, I might as well have some fun.

And I've never been on a date. Kind of saddening.

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im 20 and have never been on a date or made out with anyone and have only had one boyfriend. who was a total d-bag

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not that I'm single but....I'm 31 and have never been on a date.

I have been asked out on a few (when I was single) but nothing ever came from the offers.  I was ready to go on a date...but then after I said yes, the guys would never contact me again!

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not that I'm single but....I'm 31 and have never been on a date.

I have been asked out on a few (when I was single) but nothing ever came from the offers.  I was ready to go on a date...but then after I said yes, the guys would never contact me again!

thats happened to me too!

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I get asked out a couple times a year, and I've humored them and gone out a few times, but I think I'm just extremely picky. It seems like only the guys who are completely wrong for me are attracted to me. What's up with that? I want a guy who understands me. But it seems like they're all carnivores who just like to tease me endlessly about my veganism. I laugh and take it, but deep down it hurts that they don't really understand or support my decision. They're all too closed minded to actually care about my opinion. They're okay to be friends with, but I really don't want to sit across from them on a date while they're chewing on the charred body of a dead, abused animal. Not cool. Not okay. So I just don't want to date anyone until I find a guy who actually supports me and is open minded at least to the possibility of vegetarianism, at least most of the time.
I just don't understand why so many think that it's manly to eat mutilated, abused animal carcasses all the time... It isn't. It's cruel. Men aren't cruel. Cruelness is not manly.

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I want a guy who understands me. But it seems like they're all carnivores who just like to tease me endlessly about my veganism. I just don't want to date anyone until I find a guy who actually supports me and is open minded at least to the possibility of vegetarianism, at least most of the time.

i feel like once i tell any guy this they will not stfu about it!!! i honestly don't care if they want to chew on a rotting carcass or eat animal secretions... whatever... i just hate how they cannot get past the fact i eat the way that makes ME HAPPY like i allow them to eat whatever the hell they want... i dunno i don't think i am even going to mention it going forward because i feel like they judge me and can't get past my food choices... why are people so hung up on people being a little different? my friend said i should just say i like to eat healthy or something at first if they bring it up

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im 20 and have never been on a date or made out with anyone and have only had one boyfriend. who was a total d-bag

I've had 3 boyfriends from the age of 12 until now and 2 girlfriends. But, hm, I guess I like to be swooned and apparently there's no men willing to do that now-a-days. How come you haven't been on a date?! You're hot! See, men are idiots.

not that I'm single but....I'm 31 and have never been on a date.

I have been asked out on a few (when I was single) but nothing ever came from the offers.  I was ready to go on a date...but then after I said yes, the guys would never contact me again!

Wait, then how are you with your now partner if you never dated? Or did it just happen?

I've had offers but then when they ask where I want to go and I tell them I'm vegan they kind of just go "Okkkaaayyy, well nevermind" and that's the end of that offer. It's not that hard to take me out. Movie and a huge icee will do.

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I've had offers but then when they ask where I want to go and I tell them I'm vegan they kind of just go "Okkkaaayyy, well nevermind" and that's the end of that offer. It's not that hard to take me out. Movie and a huge icee will do.

ya fuck it... i am not even gonna mention it anymore... i would rather they see how cool i am before laying it on them... fucktards

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I've had offers but then when they ask where I want to go and I tell them I'm vegan they kind of just go "Okkkaaayyy, well nevermind" and that's the end of that offer. It's not that hard to take me out. Movie and a huge icee will do.

ya fuck it... i am not even gonna mention it anymore... i would rather they see how cool i am before laying it on them... fucktards

I'm thinking of doing that. Then when I finally mention it maybe they'll just grew a pair and be open minded. Doesn't help living in the south though lol But agree, def. fucktards.

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not that I'm single but....I'm 31 and have never been on a date.

I have been asked out on a few (when I was single) but nothing ever came from the offers.  I was ready to go on a date...but then after I said yes, the guys would never contact me again!

Wait, then how are you with your now partner if you never dated? Or did it just happen?

it was supposed to be a one night stand......ten and a half years later - longest one night stand of my entire life!

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im 20 and have never been on a date or made out with anyone and have only had one boyfriend. who was a total d-bag

I've had 3 boyfriends from the age of 12 until now and 2 girlfriends. But, hm, I guess I like to be swooned and apparently there's no men willing to do that now-a-days. How come you haven't been on a date?! You're hot! See, men are idiots.

haha because all the ones i know are stupid. and i have SUPER hot friends, so i'm never the one to get hit on. haha whatevs.

and shell, lmfao! thats awesome

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I just like to rant. :P It's other people's decision what they eat, I shouldn't get upset at them, but at the same time they shouldn't get upset at me, or try to tell me that I'm missing out. I ate meat and animal secretions for most of my life, I know I'm not missing anything.
Being vegan is one of the best things in my life, it makes me happy, and I don't want to hide it. I don't wave it in people's faces or anything, but if the subject comes up, I gladly explain that I'm vegan. Some people can't get over it and treat me like I'm an idiot or have some kind of disease, others are intrigued, and some really don't care. I figure if a guy can't accept every part of me, then there's no way on earth I can be with him; I'd rather be alone. Honestly, I really have very little experience, but being vegan has made me so much happier than any guy ever did.
Maybe I just don't know what I want in a guy. That's probably most of it. I'm hoping that when I meet him, I'll know. Otherwise, I keep busy studying my music and performing (which is another thing that makes me incredibly happy). I have about 15 more years until I'll start seriously worrying about being alone... I have to find myself before I find a guy.

Yeah, VH, you're a hottie. The guys around you must be blind fools!

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I want a guy who understands me. But it seems like they're all carnivores who just like to tease me endlessly about my veganism. I just don't want to date anyone until I find a guy who actually supports me and is open minded at least to the possibility of vegetarianism, at least most of the time.

i feel like once i tell any guy this they will not stfu about it!!! i honestly don't care if they want to chew on a rotting carcass or eat animal secretions... whatever... i just hate how they cannot get past the fact i eat the way that makes ME HAPPY like i allow them to eat whatever the hell they want... i dunno i don't think i am even going to mention it going forward because i feel like they judge me and can't get past my food choices... why are people so hung up on people being a little different? my friend said i should just say i like to eat healthy or something at first if they bring it up

I feel like this happens with women friends too. I feel like people can be stand offish with me and I am assuming it is because of being vegan. I can't think why else they would be that way.
so annoying.

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im 20 and have never been on a date or made out with anyone and have only had one boyfriend. who was a total d-bag

I've had 3 boyfriends from the age of 12 until now and 2 girlfriends. But, hm, I guess I like to be swooned and apparently there's no men willing to do that now-a-days. How come you haven't been on a date?! You're hot! See, men are idiots.

haha because all the ones i know are stupid. and i have SUPER hot friends, so i'm never the one to get hit on. haha whatevs.

and shell, lmfao! thats awesome

VH, that was ALWAYS my problem! In college guys would come up to me and start talking to me and I would think they were into me, until the infamous question was asked..."so who is your friend?"  UGH!!!
those guys are dumb because they are just going for looks anyway.
you will find someone who likes you for you, even if you are not the hottest of your friends.
just wait! it will happen!!!
but again, stay single!!!!

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