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Dating sucks

So, I met up with this guy I met online. We went out and had some drinks, had good conversation, then went back to his place to watch some TV. We made out quite a bit and all seemed well. He texted me the next morning saying he had fun and hoped I did too, well later on that day I asked him what the verdict is on another date. No reply.  Skip to the next afternoon when he tells me he doesn't know how he feels about another date and he's not sure we have that much in common!

Talk about  being blindsided! He kept giving bullshit excuses why he doesn't want to see me, while at the same time saying he had a great time! ::) I e-mailed him saying we can hangout if ever feels like it with no pressure or drama. I guess I shouldn't be giving him another shot especially since he doesn't seem to want one, but it went so well and I don't know what I did to make him never want to see or talk to me again!

Please be very careful, and i am super glad you are being smart and meeting in a public place. listen to your gut feelings on him, you never know.

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i agree talking on the phone definitely is a good idea... that's how i weeded a few guys out... so last guy who came over and liked my food never texted me back and i haven't talked to him since... whatever so done with this dating bs

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i agree talking on the phone definitely is a good idea... that's how i weeded a few guys out... so last guy who came over and liked my food never texted me back and i haven't talked to him since... whatever so done with this dating bs

Damn what the fuck is up with guys? Must we really date older to find a guy that actually wants a relationship?

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i agree talking on the phone definitely is a good idea... that's how i weeded a few guys out... so last guy who came over and liked my food never texted me back and i haven't talked to him since... whatever so done with this dating bs

Damn what the fuck is up with guys? Must we really date older to find a guy that actually wants a relationship?

i have 1 more guy left that i'm kinda talking to, ex marine, works for the gov though at a marine base, 5 years older, makes good money, lives like a few blocks away, we've talked on the phone once and it was alright, text on occasion... he's in DC and will be back thurs so maybe i'll meet him next weekend... he has a kid though, 3 years old, which i don't mind cause i have some strange sense that i won't be able to have kids on my own and not sure i really wanna give birth LOL

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have you ever met him in real life? hope he's nicer!

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have you ever met him in real life? hope he's nicer!

not yet maybe next weekend... we shall see... guys around here are just arrogant douche bags in general :/

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thats guys everywhere :[

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thats girls everywhere ;)

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So this guy I'm talking to is starting to ask me stuff like "What are you wearing"? and if I like to cuddle. And we still haven't spoken on the phone.

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So this guy I'm talking to is starting to ask me stuff like "What are you wearing"? and if I like to cuddle. And we still haven't spoken on the phone.

omg i think that is so creepy! the first guy i was talking too started asking me that kind of stuff constantly and like what color "panties" i was wearing all via text... i should've known he just wanted to fuck me then chuck me :/

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I think you girls need to start standing up for your selves a little more! When guys do that to me I let them know how it feels.

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So this guy I'm talking to is starting to ask me stuff like "What are you wearing"? and if I like to cuddle. And we still haven't spoken on the phone.

Gross!! I think it was bored chit chat with him because he only bought it up like once.

omg i think that is so creepy! the first guy i was talking too started asking me that kind of stuff constantly and like what color "panties" i was wearing all via text... i should've known he just wanted to fuck me then chuck me :/

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