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I'm just curious to meet (term used loosely here) some vegan teens cause I know lots of vegan moms from working at the Cafe but around here in NH there arent' too many teenagers who are even vegetarian. I'm just wondering what people's reactions are to you guys being vegan. Most people don't believe me because I shower. Honest to god. SO many people are like "you don't look like a hippie" I am though, I swear ;)

its ok, my gma didnt believe i didnt eat meat for a year..she would always say, there isnt any meat in that and then i would look at it and there would be meatballs in it and she would reply, well its only a little meat, its good for u.. then proceeded to tell me that i needed to eat meat to make blood lol
lots of people make fun of me but most of them admit it is only because they could never be that disciplined to do it themselves. i think it scares most people cause they dont know how to make anythign without meat so they assume we just eat carrots and starve lol

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haha i agreeeeee. people are always shocked when i tell them what i eat. They're like oh yeah.. I forgot about that.. plus when I make something super good and bring it somewhere people never believe its vegan. But they're always impressed :)

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i'm a veggie teen. 15 years. how old are you?

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I'm a vegan teen, I'm 17. My parents are...well, let's just say a little less than supportive. My dad seems like he's embarrassed of it or something. Like, a few weeks ago, we went to a party at a pizza place, and I wasn't eating anything because A)it was NOT vegan, and B)I wasn't really hungry. Someone asked if I wanted anything and I politely said no, but I guess my dad shook his head violently, as if to say, don't even get into it....whatever, it's how I choose to live. My mom sometimes asks if I'm going to the extreme....I always say no, of course. I haven't been around a lot of other people since going vegan, but school will be starting soon, so we'll see how that goes....

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My mom sometimes asks if I'm going to the extreme....I always say no, of course.

You don't just have to be a teen to get that question.  My sister makes comments like that...usually when I refuse to eat or won't buy something with honey in it.  Since according to her they "poop" it anyway so there shouldn't be anything wrong with eating it. 

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I was going to reply to this then I remembered I turned 20 already. Oops  :'(
Anyway, when I lived full-time with the family I just used to offer to cook twice a week. Mum was happy cause she got nights off and it gave me a chance to show off healthy, hearty, home-cooked vegetarian meals :)

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I'm curious- whereabouts are you in NH? I went to high school in Hanover back in the seventies.

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I think that some people think of veganism as a diet, it is not, though it has a large impact on what is consumed.  It is not a lifestyle, and I object to that wording.  It is a principle, a way of living.  I think it is often associated with tree-hugging hippie types and weird dirty people who live on communes.  Perhaps in the 1960s, people did live on communes and were perhaps a bit grungy from farming on the commune, had long hair, didn't like the Vietnam conflict (it was not a declared war), and wore tie-dye.  Well, it is the 21st Century and 40 yrs or so later, these ideas are not so "far out" as they once were.  With more than a little luck and some hard work, perhaps they will be mainstream ideas.

Because it is often thought of a diet, and anyone who has tried a weight loss diet will tell you, will power can be broken!  If only we were practicing willpower, they might break us!  For most of us, willpower not to eat meat doesn't come into it, it was a choice, a decision made because of our feelings and principles, something inside, important to us and not because we felt we needed to conform to an external belief in beauty, thinness or fitness.  There will plenty of people in our lives who will feel the need to try to break our willpower by offering us meat thinking they just need to break us down to join them.  I wish they understood, vegan isn't a diet, it is a belief system.

To the one that said just one person can't make a difference in animal slaughter, not so.  I think I read somewhere the one person consumes something like 2000 cattle in a lifetime, and you can bet it is a higher number of chickens and quite a few pigs too.  If my figures are right, then you and I together, just us, we have saved thousands of cows, innumerable chickens and an awful lot of pigs.  That is just you and me.  I'd say that was difference.

I also think that others feel weak in the presence of what they see as our self-sacrifice, one they cannot manage or won't try.  Initially, I am sure every one of us missed flesh for a while and certainly we have all talked about dreaming of eating flesh.  It doesn't mean we want it, however. After you get really stuck into the vegan/vegetarian diet, you stop missing meat and start longing for other things, things which the tainted nose and tastebud of the omni cannot appreciate...the natural smell and flavor of vegetables and fruits of all kinds.  "Diet" done right, you'll be a bit thinner, much healthier, more calm and happy then any meater ever thought of being.

I will say, and this comes from a woman old enough to be your mother, so listen up...that life is short and it is too short to spend your time with males who do not respect you, who tease you or try to sneak meat into your food.  You can't blow it off as just the fact that he still eats meat.  He is rude, unfeeling,  insensitive, overbearing, opinionated and domineering.  Today it is the hamburger on his plate he thinks you need to taste, but as you grow older and date in your 20s, if you give an unworthy male an inch, he'll steal the mile and run right over you, your feelings, your self-worth, and anything that is important to you, to steal that mile.  Remember, you deserve better and if he can't be open minded and at least give your way of life a try, dump him.  There are other males who will be more giving and considerate, find one.

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I'm not exactly vegan yet (I show promise), but as soon as I phase out milk and butter completely - I'll be there.  I have so much respect for vegan teens, especially ones under the age of 16, just because it's hard when someone else is buying groceries...as soon as I realized I can get in a car, go to a grocery store, and buy as many vegetables and beans as I want the whole thing got a lot easier.  It's hard to break the cycle of raiding the pantry for edibles when meat eating parents are doing the shopping

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I'm curious- whereabouts are you in NH? I went to high school in Hanover back in the seventies.

Kbone i don't know if you'll see this seeing as how this thread is two years old.. but I went to John Stark in Weare.

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I'm a vegan teen (technically) and thankfully there are plenty of stores around where I live that sell cruelty-free food & other products.
My family is very supportive and even though there was initial concern, they now see what sort of things I eat & don't question it anymore. Once a week I cook a vegan dinner for my mum and step dad and they always seem to enjoy it. My grandma even does her own research on vegan cooking and has come up with some very yummy original recipes (like her lasange...*drools*).

I can say though that the high school I used to attend had virtually NO vegan options - only a salad sandwich that still contained cheese. I was an omnivore when I was there but it was just an observation I made. I'm not sure how much they have improved & quite honestly, I'm not so sure I want to go back there & find out either.

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I went vegan right after turning 16, and I was vegetarian at 15.
Going to college next year(dorm life!) should be interesting.

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I hate how people (especially and usually parents) think it's a phase. I'm 18 and I had been a vegetarian for over 3 years and I have been a vegan for about 6 months now. It was difficult at first, until I found this site and all the awesome recipes :) I just think there are too many people who judge and misunderstand why we choose to be vegan. It's just easier for them to go with the mainstream and what society expects than to be different. It's just typical for people to eat animals and animal products. I truely hope and believe that one day people will think about what they eat and all the affects it has on animals and the environment and us.

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