When you seriously want to injure someone at work
How many of you have been 'thrown under the bus' by someone at work?? To the point that it almost seems personal! I won't go into the long dramatic history, but lets just say someone totally has it in for me, a manager where I work. What the hell do I do???? I mean, I'm tired of hearing bad shit about me that simply is not true! At one point in time I had threatened to quit because of this person! >:( I'm like 2.2 seconds away from sending the meanest email ever to this un-named bitch/asshole (yes, there are two of them), but I know that would be wrong and very unprofessional.
Small history: After I threatened to quit the company, my manager moved me to a diffrent program and building so I wouldn't leave. The person appointed to replace me went on vacation, so I had to cover the old program....hence contact with the bitch and the asshole..... and hence the game begins!
I just don't know what to do! What would you do?!
what happened? can you tell us in a few paragraphs?
been there-i quit and it was the best thing i ever did!
Play tricks on the bitch. Make sure they are small and nobody will ever find out. Personal satisfaction is the greatest. I don't know what to tell you, though because I'm the boss at work and have been for four years. The only person above me is the owner and he doesn't get on my case at all.
Lubi I seriously don't know where to start, I could fill an entire diary! This person tends to blaim things on me that I have no control over! Now, I wont get 'in trouble' for her comments because there is evidence to support her aligations, as a matter of fact, the evidence says the contrary ....its more just when a manager says shit about a person, it sticks....whether or not there is substanitial evidence to support the bullshit. office politics you know.... it de-faces me...the company i work in is very political.....she doesn't like me becasuse I don't crawl up her ass.... not my style. I will tell anyone the way it is, regardless of who you are, and she gets offended by that.
I'm just so pissed I'm either going to drink myself to death tonight or send a ton of nasty emails, one of which would be a detailed resignation letter..... I'm trying not to do any of the forementioned.
oh, and when i quit, i didnt give any notice. i just called her stupid cell phone and told her i wasnt coming in anymore-so i sort of screwed her over
pull jim-and-pam style pranks on the people.
been there-i quit and it was the best thing i ever did!
Shit I wish, I need the way awesome health benefits....I have lupus....the benefits is the only reason why I stay! AND that sucks!
Well, certainly don't send an angry email. That sucker will be forwarded to everyone in the office.
I had a co-worker for the past few years (her last day was July 30) who was the only other person in my unit and slandered me to our supervisor. I networked around her and, when I absolutely had to deal with her, it was gratuitously formal. I didn't worry about what she might have said to other people about me. Once they worked with me they knew I kick ass and she lost credibility.
When I absolutely had to interact with her I sent emails when possible, and if there was someone I could justifiably include in the email, I'd cc that person. I don't know why, but a cc seems to help people act less like idiots.
Of course I have never done this but have heard it is very effective........ slash their tires on the wall facing the engine so they just think it is a flat and keep pumping it................... sugar in the gas tank.........................brake fluid on the body work.....................
But as a boss of 8 people nothing will f*** you up like someone quitting and not giving notice and deleting any of your work before you do quit.
Just quit, life is too short to have those kind of hassles.
If you can't afford to quit on the spot, hit the job market ASAP!
Good luck.
No clue what to do about the work thing, but I now know that you have lupus, in addition to IBS. You talk about drinking a lot, and especially in this thread "drink yourself to death." I know you're not serious, but w/ IBS, and especially lupus, PB, girl, you should not be drinking at all! Sorry to be a downer when you're so pissed off right now, but I can assure you that drinking copious amounts of alcohol is the last thing you should do.
Pink, I luv you!
Pb, that sucks! Just try to focus on the fact that you only have to work with them for a short time (covering vaca, right?) HH has good advice. Just keep doing awesome work and ignore them!
No clue what to do about the work thing, but I now know that you have lupus, in addition to IBS. You talk about drinking a lot, and especially in this thread "drink yourself to death." I know you're not serious, but w/ IBS, and especially lupus, PB, girl, you should not be drinking at all! Sorry to be a downer when you're so pissed off right now, but I can assure you that drinking copious amounts of alcohol is the last thing you should do.
Your so sweet, and I know about the drinking.... I tend to use that as an outlet when I don't know how to deal. Thanks for your concern, it made me feel good , no downer :)>>>
Good, i'm glad you don't hate me. I'm just such a medical nerd, I have to speak up when I see/hear things like that. Just remember, life is a journey through many peaks and valleys, right now pb, you're hanging out in a valley. It WILL get better.
Good, I'm glad you don't hate me. I'm just such a medical nerd, I have to speak up when I see/hear things like that. Just remember, life is a journey through many peaks and valleys, right now pb, you're hanging out in a valley. It WILL get better.
Shit pink....totally. ;) The big question is when will it get better? That was rhetorical, I know no one can answer that.
Play tricks on the bitch. Make sure they are small and nobody will ever find out. Personal satisfaction is the greatest. I don't know what to tell you, though because I'm the boss at work and have been for four years. The only person above me is the owner and he doesn't get on my case at all.
dude, hire me in your company ;)
Note to self: Do not piss off GSC. I had a friend who's broken-hearted ex loved her so much he filled her gas tank with sugar, causing her to be stranded late at night. I thought that was an 80's thing. Young love. <sigh>
PB - get your resume in order and start looking! The fear of the unknown is worse than the actual unknown. Or something like that. I heard the Almighty Oprah say that one time. I think this is a sign that something better is out there for you.
could you send anounymous letters to your boss about how bad an employee she is??? real mature, I know...... 8-)
Of course I have never done this but have heard it is very effective........ slash their tires on the wall facing the engine so they just think it is a flat and keep pumping it................... sugar in the gas tank.........................brake fluid on the body work.....................
But as a boss of 8 people nothing will f*** you up like someone quitting and not giving notice and deleting any of your work before you do quit.
Just quit, life is too short to have those kind of hassles.
If you can't afford to quit on the spot, hit the job market ASAP!
Good luck.
cut the valve stems, not as obvious when the tire guy pulls the tire off. just sayin... :oh:
Note to self: Do not piss off GSC.
Or our sweet little Pinkerbell. :oh:
many years ago, (before that damned caller id), a boss we all HATED got fired finally!!! well, we....or me was so mature, I called her and said, "hi, I'm calling from Ugly Bitch Escort service and I heard you need a job".....click, she hangs up.......so......I call again...."Please don't hang up, you are perfect for us, ugly and a bitch too!!!!!!"
what can I say??? I hated that biatch!!!!
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