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The "SAY SOMETHING NICE RIGHT NOW" Thread

This is something I do with my children when they have been insulting or generally acting nasty to each other.    I thought it would be nice to do it here.  The rules are you have to say something

1.  to someone you've never said anything nice to before (for whatever reason)
2.  that is affirmatively nice
3.  about that person

So, for example "jkl I really like how your screen name has three letters in a row" is not particularly affirmatively nice about me, whereas "jkl, . . . . " Okay, well, I can't think of anything, but you get my drift.

I'll start.

Yabbitgirl:  I am really impressed that you are vegetarian in Spain.  I haven't been there in many years, but if it's the same as say, fifteen years ago, I can't imagine a more veg-unfriendly place.  You must have a lot of conviction. And I really like your posts.

To individual thank-you's....

owalkerjillo: I think it may have been y ou that posted the vegweb link on craftster so long ago. I think you're really nifty. Nothing specific; you're just nifty.  ;)

haha thanks courth ;D I do think I most likely posted it on the craftster vegetarian/vegan board. it made me sad to see that board with hardly any action but from a select few, and figured this was the right place to direct people, glad it worked out for you ;D

and for mine:

baypuppy- i love that you make such an effot to get everyone to feel important and you put so much into this board. when you responded on my thread about college applications way back when it made me feel really nice:)

VegAnna- I think that you're SO spunky and I love your photo with the pigtails :) all of your comments are always really helpful and nice to read.

chickpea- i really admire you, i think because we're around the same age (high school) and so its nice to know other vegans in HS dealing with parents and boys and school as i am, you bring a dose of "real life" to this forum for me  :)

ps. jkl thanks for the messages you've been sending out to let us know when something nice is said about us, it is DEFINATELY something positive to log in and see.

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jkl - Thanks for starting this topic.  I've been out of town for a few days.  I came back to find an eight-page thread of nice comments.  You rock!  I think you are a fantastic mother.

humboldt_honey - She's so sweet and soft spoken it's hard to think of her as a mod.  She's got the super caring cat mommy thing going on.  And she does thoughtful things like quietly leaving important links when I forget about them.

humboldt_honey - ditto on the sweetness. The username is perfect for you in that sense.

I'm going to cut out these comments and post them at work so my coworkers can see that some people don't think my main objective in life is to be a blatant, stubborn, argumentative shrew.  :D

I really like having a place where I can come and be "sweet."  It's not something I have the luxory of doing/being where I work, so I appreciate vegweb for that.

Vigilant20 - I like your sincerity (and that you started Veg of the Month club). 

Ecstatic - After holding your own in the honey thread I knew I was really going to like your posts.

Not to blow the perfection of my username, but - it's a throwback to my Humboldt days.  A "humboldt honey" is a girl who doesn't shave.

Now on to someone I haven't complimented.  Hmmm.... The people I remember complimenting in the past include (but are not limited to):  TinTexas, Lady Dragonfly, yabbitgirl, VegHeadZealia, cephi, capture, The Book Family, secondbase, hespedel, baypuppy, LucidAnne, gotskates14127, Sariea, Saskia, AshleyKimball, DaveDrum, adamcrisis...  There's more.  It would help if I had a list of names.

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Vigilant20 -  you started Veg of the Month club. 

Ooh yeah!  I agree!  I love the idea of that thread!

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daaaanng, PIP!  that is one lovely new avatar!  ...along with the other new shots in your gallery.  so pretty!

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Oh Shit! Hespedal.....YOU QUOTED ME before I got a chance to delete what I wrote!!!! That's stuff is supposed to be DELETED!!! Can you please delete what I wrote...please!! I'm truly trying to be more positive. I AM!!!

That's what I like about you =) Sometimes you're too candid for yourself! But I love truly honest people.

FaunaBlues - thanks! Yeah, my honesty gets me in trouble all the time! ;D

I had a little "aha" moment while writing in my journal just now.

Total and complete veracity does not make a person terribly popular.

Oh well. I can live with that I guess. :)

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Again...I'd like to thank all the people who are quiet and/or humble and who do wonderful things but do not announce it on this board. I like you people!

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Pretty in Punk - I do like your new avatar...very pretty!

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aww, thank you all for your lovely comments! you made my day even better :). all of you vegwebbers are amazing in EVERY friggin way. if there were a limited world of people to live with, living with all of you would be AMAZING! haha.

LITTLE2ANT! i loved talking to you! your son noah is an amazing artist and so are you :). congrats on the new baby :)
LIMEGREEN! you are so fun! i love talking to you and your honesty. we definitely need to party sometime :P
YABBITGIRL! you are on of the first people that i started talking to on vegweb. you always give me great advice and it's always great talking to you.
KENNEDY28! our chats are always fun! i love talking to you. maybe i should go to new york so we can chill :)
LISAANDDINI! wow, you were like my first "chat buddy" it's always great talking to you about random things and giving and getting advice!
VIOLIN! it's nice to know that there is someone in the same dilemma as me. I love you girly :)
RING_OF_FIRE! You're another one of my vegweb "bitches" i love you! we can always have awesome conversations about anything.
HIIMKELSI! at first i thought that your name was german. lol. i miss our chats about punk, the pgh, and oh so much more! we'll definitely have to go to the zenith tea house together one day :)
DAVEDRUM: you are so amazing and inspirational! i don't even know what to say. thanks for everything!
SECONDBASE!! i miss your posts. you should be on here more often :P
THE BOOKFAMILY: you are the most amazing family i have ever heard of. i love you guys :)
CAPTURE AND CAMILLUS! i love you guys! you are so fun, amazing, honest, and smart!
BAYPUPPY! i wish that i could be the awesome sociologist and baker that you are! thanks for being the greatest mod ever!

everyone else, much love! i would type more but i think that this post would be enormous.

Hey PIP!!

Thanks, i miss our chats  ;)...I never see you around anymore, boooo...we should totally chill  :)

All you other awesome Vegwebbers, I love you all for your candid comments, compassionate values, great pictures, tasty Kale recipes and acceptance.  :) you gals and guys rule in my book!

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I totally agree, Kennedy28. How can I forget PIP! My punk best friend would totally love her.

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coming on this board is the cherry on top of my day

you're all incredibly friendly and inspiring.
it's just nice to have virtual friends when high school can be so harsh.

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I totally agree, Kennedy28. How can I forget PIP! My punk best friend would totally love her.

aww, i forgot karate kid! i love her! i love your new photo too :)

Thanks PIP. *blushing*  :-*

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Great thread topic jkl and thanks for the pointer.  :)
I appreciate everyone who stands up for what they think is important -even if I don't agree with them.  There are too many people to list, but the yellow dot is a good indicator.  ShaolinBunny usually says what I'm thinking, but have no intention of posting.  ;)
The posts I enjoy most are the ones that crack me up.  Off the top of my head...adamchris, Kbone and vigilant20.  I don't read the majority of threads and I don't visit every day, so I'm sure I miss a lot. 
I appreciate those who contribute recipes, photos and reviews.  Thank you.  I daydream about all the yummy things I can't find the ingredients to prepare.
Hespedal, your posts are always considerate and, although I thanked you privately I'll reiterate, thanks for posting the http://www.couchsurfing.com link.  I joined immediately and it has been great fun. 
Truly though, I like all of you for choosing to be v*gan.    :-*

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I just want to say to DINKFEET that I saw a pic of your "peanut butter frosting" cake on the sidebar and couldn't stop laughing about that day you made that cake and it was all stuck together with toothpicks... oh wow... that was FUNNY

Thanks for making me laugh, a LOT, dink. ;)

p.s. You're cute.  Now swoon.

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PIP - love you new pics! So pretty  :)

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PIP - love you new pics! So pretty  :)

What deuceo said!
PIP, you are the punk I have always secretly longed to be.
:D

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I just want to say to DINKFEET that I saw a pic of your "peanut butter frosting" cake on the sidebar and couldn't stop laughing about that day you made that cake and it was all stuck together with toothpicks... oh wow... that was FUNNY

Thanks for making me laugh, a LOT, dink. ;)

p.s. You're cute.  Now swoon.

Swoon. Every time I see that pic in the sidebar, I groan. The PB&J cake was such a good idea  :-\

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Swoon. Every time I see that pic in the sidebar, I groan. The PB&J cake was such a good idea  :-\

It was highly entertaining.  I heart you.

PIParoo! I love how knowledgeable and funny you are!  I always learn something new from you; whenever I have a question, you're sure to have an answer!

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I just want to say to DINKFEET that I saw a pic of your "peanut butter frosting" cake on the sidebar and couldn't stop laughing about that day you made that cake and it was all stuck together with toothpicks... oh wow... that was FUNNY

Thanks for making me laugh, a LOT, dink. ;)

p.s. You're cute.  Now swoon.

Swoon. Every time I see that pic in the sidebar, I groan. The PB&J cake was such a good idea  :-\

OMG! ;D I just looked up this recipe/picture, and I love that you posted the picture, despite its...funniness! Good for you! :D (It does look yummy, though!)

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I just wanted to say something nice!

lisaanddini-- you are amazing. You actually listen to me when I talk and make me feel like someone really cares about me and what I do. (Even if its just "how was school?" or "did you win your game?". You must have your hands full, but I think you are like my second mom.

I have more but I will be back!

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I just wanted to say something nice!

lisaanddini-- you are amazing. You actually listen to me when I talk and make me feel like someone really cares about me and what I do. (Even if its just "how was school?" or "did you win your game?". You must have your hands full, but I think you are like my second mom.

I have more but I will be back!

hehehe  :-[ awww thanks sweetie!!! That cheered me up on a cold tuesday morning, even if I did tell you to write something nice about me! haha!

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I wanted to thank pip for being there and letting me know that I have a friend who is kind of like me! I miss you lots though  :( . Do you have an e-mail or sn?

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Why is it being shut down???

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