i know this is way off topic... but i don't know where else to go
Posted by itsybitsykristy on Dec 09, 2008 · Member since Sep 2008 · 155 posts
i just found out this morning that my husband of 2 years has been cheating on me. ... with multiple women at that. i left the house at noon and have been driving since then. it's now 8pm and i finally stopped at a motel. i'm alone, upset and scared. how could he do this to me? :'(
good luck!!!!! make that jerk sorry!!!
hmmm, lots to think about...
i'm entitled to spousal support and half the business. i'm thinking i tell him to keep all his debt he wracked up ($17,000 worth) and i'll leave his business and the spousal support alone. i think that's fair.
i'd like to settle this out of court really.
Do you have a mediator? Much cheaper than a lawyer and helps to settle things out of court. (sorry, didn't read whole thread, may have talked about this.)
oh, never even thought about that, and actually i'm not sure what that is. i was going to try to get legal aid...
mediator sounds like less work and better!
Hooray for boobies.
Hooray for cute guys!!! *giggle*
Hey, been away and just caught up on this...I want to offer huge hugs and support too. Reading this makes me so angry, people like that should have giant *asshole* signs stuck to their foreheads so they can't pull their shitty tricks on unsuspecting people. It sounds like you are being so strong and brave and doing all the right things and I wish you all the very best, you certainly deserve it. GOOD LUCK!!!
oh, never even thought about that, and actually i'm not sure what that is. i was going to try to get legal aid...
mediator sounds like less work and better!
Yeah, check out mediation. It's like, a lawyer who goes back and forth with both sides (not in the same room; at different times) and tries to sort things out so you can avoid going to court, but you can still try to get what you deserve out of it, etc). I'm not sure of the specifics, only that I have a friend who used one and have a friend who is one, but I've never asked much about it. She takes care of all of the paperwork, etc. So, she is a lawyer, but she tries to keep it all out of court, etc. idk if it will work for you, but it's worth a shot to see if it could benefit you?
i'm downloading some songs for my mp3 player, gonna start working out this month, wanna lose some weight and take care of myself
need some motivating songs. :)
here's what i have right now:
justin timberlake - what goes around
justin timberlake - cry me a river
xtina - fighter
pink - there you go
anything that's upbeat and rockin' that you guys love??? music always makes me feel better/stronger!!
Can I suggest Pink - "So What" as well. Perfect angry break up song.
Oh, and Queen - "death on two legs" if you're in an angry mood.
Basement Jaxx - Good Luck
The Dresden Dolls are awesome and full of girl-kick-ass
i'm downloading some songs for my mp3 player, gonna start working out this month, wanna lose some weight and take care of myself
need some motivating songs. :)
here's what i have right now:
justin timberlake - what goes around
justin timberlake - cry me a river
xtina - fighter
pink - there you go
anything that's upbeat and rockin' that you guys love??? music always makes me feel better/stronger!!
Can I suggest Pink - "So What" as well. Perfect angry break up song.
Oh, and Queen - "death on two legs" if you're in an angry mood.
Basement Jaxx - Good Luck
The Dresden Dolls are awesome and full of girl-kick-ass
wicked, just finished listening to Good Luck!!! I love it!!! kick ass!
What about Pink "U and Ur Hand" LOLOLOL Love it.
Pink's got some kick ass songs.
Ani DiFranco's Dilate Album is the BEST breakup album.
Esp:
Untouchable Face
Outta Me, Onto You
Superhero
Dilate
Done Wrong
Going Down ("Little Mr. Limp Dick is up to his old shit and I bet he calls me one last time, but I'm just about done with the "oh woe is me" shit and I want everything back that's mine")
Yes, yes, yes.
Going Down ("Little Mr. Limp Dick is up to his old shit and I bet he calls me one last time, but I'm just about done with the "oh woe is me" shit and I want everything back that's mine")
Yes, yes, yes.
Oh wow. I need that song in my collection.
Hooray for boobies.
Hooray for cute guys!!! *giggle*
X2. I just said hooray for boobies cause everyone was talking about yay for boobies... and "hooray for boobies" is a song.
Going Down ("Little Mr. Limp Dick is up to his old shit and I bet he calls me one last time, but I'm just about done with the "oh woe is me" shit and I want everything back that's mine")
Yes, yes, yes.
Oh wow. I need that song in my collection.
You need to know that's what she's saying or you might miss it. She repeats it quite a few times, though :)
*goes to listen*
EDIT: only says it once. Oh well. Tis good tho.
Hooray for boobies.
Hooray for cute guys!!! *giggle*
X2. I just said hooray for boobies cause everyone was talking about yay for boobies... and "hooray for boobies" is a song.
i see, and i was saying hooray for cute guys, cuz you're cute.
What about Pink "U and Ur Hand" LOLOLOL Love it.
Pink's got some kick ass songs.
Ani DiFranco's Dilate Album is the BEST breakup album.
Esp:
Untouchable Face
Outta Me, Onto You
Superhero
Dilate
Done Wrong
Going Down ("Little Mr. Limp Dick is up to his old shit and I bet he calls me one last time, but I'm just about done with the "oh woe is me" shit and I want everything back that's mine")
Yes, yes, yes.
runs off to listen! thanks!!!
runs off to listen! thanks!!!
You're welcome.
:)
todays the big day! i feel so sick to my stomach!
todays the big day! i feel so sick to my stomach!
it's going to be OK!!! We are all here to support you!!
:)>>> :)>>> :)>>> :)>>>
todays the big day! i feel so sick to my stomach!
it's going to be OK!!! We are all here to support you!!
:)>>> :)>>> :)>>> :)>>>
Ditto!! And let us know how it goes! :bear2:
:)>>>
Thinking of you!
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