NVR: Keep your man from straying! BS?
Posted by Camillus on Sep 14, 2007 · Member since May 2007 · 1009 posts
http://health.yahoo.com/experts/menlovesex/61750/5-ways-to-keep-your-man-from-straying
My favorite comment, "But we all know how the story goes after that: Time passes, and people slip into a spiral of unfaithful behavior that may start with a flirt, or a cup of coffee, or a drunken night at the hotel bar."
So apparently it is the women's job to keep the relationship together... comments ladies? Did this annoy anyone else?
Hmmm, Scrabble night. Now that will keep him interested ;D
I...may need to rethink my strategy.... :(
Show off
not tryin to, that just doesnt sound correct at all, unless its implied as a sperm count thing
You're right, but I just figured like if it's an average of all men including the elderly....maybe I don't know a lot about old men and their refractory periods or whatever....good thing I was able to gross myself out there.
Scrabble nights are FUN
Especially if you have letters from 2 sets...enough to play "naughty Scrabble"...now that might rekindle the spark! ;D
The 24 hour thing made me giggle. My BF and I have had some amazing days. Two or three times. He is in his 40's.
I guess that is based on an individual thing or maybe I am so hot...... ;D ;D ;D
Men have a refractory stage, in which they cannot get another erection, that varies (according to individual, age, excitement level, etc.) but has an average of 24 hrs.
When God kicked us out of the Garden and made childbearing painful for women, this is what he did to men.
Cephi - have you heard the joke about God giving cool things away out of his big bag of cool things to everyone. After all the animals have taken their turn, Adam and Eve are left, and God looks in His bag and says, "Well, I've only got two things left, the first is 'peeing standing up.' Adam jumps up and down and says, "Ooh, ooh, I want it!" And Eve says, "Sure, he seems excited, he can have it." So it goes. Then God looks in His bag and says, "So what do I have left? Multiple orgasms....." ;D
Sorry for the boy bashing Cephi and AdamCrisis ::)
Unless I'm much mistaken, men can also have multiple orgasms.
Hmmm, Scrabble night. Now that will keep him interested ;D
I...may need to rethink my strategy.... :(
knitting matching love sweaters is a seductive one too :)
I think Monopoly is more seductive.
Men have a refractory stage, in which they cannot get another erection, that varies (according to individual, age, excitement level, etc.) but has an average of 24 hrs.
When God kicked us out of the Garden and made childbearing painful for women, this is what he did to men.
Cephi - have you heard the joke about God giving cool things away out of his big bag of cool things to everyone. After all the animals have taken their turn, Adam and Eve are left, and God looks in His bag and says, "Well, I've only got two things left, the first is 'peeing standing up.' Adam jumps up and down and says, "Ooh, ooh, I want it!" And Eve says, "Sure, he seems excited, he can have it." So it goes. Then God looks in His bag and says, "So what do I have left? Multiple orgasms....." ;D
Sorry for the boy bashing Cephi and AdamCrisis ::)
Unless I'm much mistaken, men can also have multiple orgasms.
I wouldn't know ::)
You're right, but I just figured like if it's an average of all men including the elderly....maybe I don't know a lot about old men and their refractory periods or whatever....good thing I was able to gross myself out there.
Ha!
erm, yeah... That was a total blunder on my part. (@_o)
ALL men do not have an average refractory period of 24 hrs.
(I meant to say "up to 24 hrs.". I sincerely hope that this misinformation has not been spread to other regions of cyberspace or beyond. :-/ )
What is more accuraqte and should have been said is:
The average refractory period for a guy, above a certain age (puberty) and below a certain age, is around 30 minutes. It varies anywhere from 5 minutes to 24 hours or more... getting longer with age.
It should be noted, though, that this was the findings of experiments where men brought themselves to climax, then played with themselves until they could achieve another erection. I don't know about you guys, but I think the results would be a little skewed. Sexuality is very complicated & involves the mind, and I would think that the results would be different in an intimate setting with a partner.
I have never been with a guy that took much time at all, but even so-> males can only get it back up a certain amt. of times in any given night. I don't know if there is an actual limit that the male sexual anatomy can take, but I haven't had sex with a male partner more than 5 times in one night (which was definitely not a regular occurrence, for him, & I am pretty certain it would not be physically possible for him to be "up" for more).
:::Disclaimer::: This was not part of a double-blind experiment with a randomly picked population of a hundred or more (or any experiment, at all, for that matter) and is therefor, not indicative of...
well, anything. (~_^)
On the other hand, females have no refractory period, at all, and can repeatedly get aroused & have one orgasm after the other until they are just too physically or mentally tired or are just not interested anymore.
That is the comparison I was attempting to draw on.
When it comes to pleasuring a partner, I really don't think the refractory period (or the amt. of times one is able to get erect in one session of making love) matters, as long as you know how to use your tongue and your other extensions and are as concerned with your partner's pleasure as your own.
I wasn't insinuating that females make better lovers than males. I was only suggesting that the differences in sexual response cycles could be used as another argument against monogamy being the natural or instinctual choice for humans.
well, so much for thinking that Im a total stud
You are Adam! ;) I wonder what the times for this study would be like if only vegan males were polled... anywhere from 10 seconds to 10 minutes I would guess.
Hmmm, Scrabble night. Now that will keep him interested ;D
I...may need to rethink my strategy.... :(
knitting matching love sweaters is a seductive one too :)
I think Monopoly is more seductive.
We prefer 500 rummy. So far he's beaten me about 10 times and I beat him once.
You are Adam! ;) I wonder what the times for this study would be like if only vegan males were polled... anywhere from 10 seconds to 10 minutes I would guess.
ahaha
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