um, so my "little sister" just died...
kinda weird that i'm posting this on here, but when i realized i needed to talk to friends, this is where I ended up.
My bff Erin just called from Indiana, and it's super late out there, so I knew it wasn't a good call. Her youngest sister (my old roommate) died. Jenny died. She was cleaning the bathroom, and she closed the door, then Mom found her, all blue. and she was dead. i heard erin tell me that jenny is dead. and i can say it. but my mind isn't working right now, so it's not really processing this, so i'm just sitting here, staring into my closet? i'm driving to Davis tomorrow, we'll find out autopsy results hopefully tomorrow. i just... my brain won't work, and i guess i thought if i typed it out, it would be more real. and it's not, and that's kinda freaking me out. i've only had patients die, not close friends my age, not my other family. so. there's that.
I'm sorry. Is she at Davis? Is that why you're headed there? If her mom is there, too, I'm sure it will be comforting for her to be near other people who also loved Jenny. And for you, too.
OMG Pink, I am so sorry about Jenny. How old was she? What horrible news and I am sure a total shock.
My thoughts and prayers are going to you and her family. I don't know what to say. News like this makes us all realize how fragile life is.
I am so sorry.
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That's terrible..I'm really sorry to hear that. My condolances to you and the family.
That's.... horrible. Shocking. I'm so sorry, pink... I don't know what else to say, except that I hope you and the family can find comfort in one another. :'(
I'm so sorry, Pink. I'll be sending you and Jenny's family the very best wishes in the coming days. *hugs*
my sympathies are with you. safe journey down there and i hope you can all find some comfort in one another
I'm so sorry. My sincere condolences to everyone.
I am so very sorry. I lost my childhood best friend unexpectedly, and it takes a long time for it to sink in and really seem real. I will be sending as many positive thoughts to you and her family as I can in the coming days. :'(
Oh pink! I am so sorry. That is shocking and awful news! You are in my thoughts. (((((pink)))))
I'm so sorry. That's terrible news. To lose anyone is terrible, but to lose someone so young and so unexpectedly...there are no words.
*hug*
Pink... I'm sending you a virtual hug. I don't really know what else to say. I'm so sorry for this.
OMG, I am so sorry. It so hurts to loose someone you are close to, anybody here who has lost loved ones can understand what you are going through. We are here for you if you need to talk. Grab your cat, or dog, and just cry and let it out. That is what I do when I am sad. Wonderful thing about animals is they don't care if you get tears in their fur.
:'( :'( :'( :'(
How horrible. Let me know if you want to talk...or anything else. :(
:'( How very very sad...
I'm so soory Pink--please let us know if there is anyting we can do for you! ((((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))
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(((((pink)))))
I hope you are getting tons of "real" hugs too...
My deepest sympathies to you Pink and her family and friends. *big hugs*
(((((Pink))))) I am truly sorry about your friend. I know how hard it is to lose someone you love. You and her family will be in my thoughts and prayers. I know we don't really "know" each other, but if you need a shoulder or an ear, I'm here.
I'm very sorry to read about your loved one. Please PLEASE remember to EAT!!! (speaking from grieving experience). Even if it is just a lara bar or juice (preferably a smoothie). You need to take care of yourself too in this time. Breakfast foods seem to be lighter and easier for grieving stomachs to handle....But do allow yourself the time alone you may need or the time with friends you need or the time with animals you need and know you have people IRL and here that care about you and love you.
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